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Bring Out the Best in Others with the Law of Attraction
According to the Law of Attraction, when you think a thought or
feel a feeling, you broadcast vibrations out into the Universe,
which magnetically connect with people and circumstances of like
vibration. In fact, you're like a giant magnet pulling into your
life whatever you focus on. Like a magnet, you draw people,
things and circumstances into your life, which are in harmony with
your dominant vibration. At every moment you draw to yourself the
essence of what you predominantly think and feel.
You can apply this basic principle of the Law of Attraction to bringing
out the best in others. For example, if someone snaps at you, criticizes
you or disappoints you in some way, do you react negatively and
add fuel to the fire of bad feelings OR do you wisely choose not
to accept offense? There may be a strong tendency at first to react
with hurt or sadness or anger because of years of practicing these
responses, but, as the Law of Attraction teaches, it's always better
to focus on what feels good rather than what feels bad. So,
instead, you might think - "Yeah, I don't really like what
they did, but I refuse to use it as an excuse to feel bad. I refuse
to use it as a reason to disconnect from Well-Being." If you
determine to keep your vibration high and make feeling good the
most important thing, you will refuse to relinquish your Well-Being
for any reason whatsoever.
If you know in advance that you will be interacting with someone
you find challenging, set your intention for the meeting to be enjoyable
for both of you. Intend that - "We are going to really like
each other. We are going to get along great." Intend
to see only the good in that person. Intend that, while you're
together, they will be at their best and you will draw out their
good qualities. Even if you haven't seen any evidence of their alleged
good qualities for quite some time, know that they do exist and
be determined to excavate them. Make it a treasure hunt. Admittedly
it's more of a stretch with some people than with others, so keep
reminding yourself that everyone's true identity is a brilliantly
shining star.
If you resort to complaining, a vibration is activated within you
that keeps you connected to that unpleasant other. The more you
complain, the more vibrationally connected you will be. So, when
you feel yourself becoming irritated with someone, remove your attention
from the irritation and place it firmly on something that feels
good. Imagine a rose bush. Do you focus on the flowers or the thorns?
When you are independently happy and secure in your ability to tap
into your Wellspring of Well-Being, you will bring out the best
in others and experience joyous relationships.
Kate Corbin is a Law of Attraction Life Coach and the creator of
Gold Star Coaching. Both her coaching practice and her books - Dining
at the Cosmic Café: How to Be and Do and Have Whatever You
Desire as well as Think and Grow Thin with the Law of Attraction
- http://www.goldstarcoaching.com/ebook.html
are designed to empower you to truly live the life of your dreams.
To contact Coach Kate, check out her books, and subscribe to her
free ezine, Magical Musings, visit http://www.goldstarcoaching.com/
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