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This week in Magnetic News, we have an article by
Nanette Geiger called "HAVE YOU ALREADY DITCHED YOUR NEW YEAR'S
RESOLUTIONS."
Ready to rock?
Let's go...........
HAVE YOU ALREADY DITCHED YOUR NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS
Did you realize that the average New Year's resolution
lasts about 3 weeks?
Does that sound like you? I have a solution to that problem.
Stop making New Year's resolutions. That's right! They don't inspire
you, they don't compel you toward your goal, so stop making them
and start creating an inspired vision instead.
Top Reasons New Year's Resolutions Fail
1. Your goals are ones you 'think' you should have.
2. Your goals are those others expect you to have.
3. You don't have a compelling enough reason or vision pulling your
forward.
4. You don't practice the feeling of the goal realized.
5. You have no accountability or structure to support you in place.
Reason Number 1: Your goals are ones you 'think' you should have.
Do you find yourself measuring yourself against others in career,
income, body, relationship, and all those other measures we're so
familiar with? We stop doing that. You are unique. All of your intentions
are specific to you. Sure we share common intentions and desires
but there's no one else exactly like you. You have a particular
spin on life that is refreshing. Acknowledge yourself for
that. And chances are those with whom you are comparing yourself
already think that you have a lot going for you.
Reason Number 2: Your goals are what others *expect* you to have.
Are these your goals and dreams or someone else's? Are they your
mother's, your bosses, your spouse's, your kid's, your friend's,
or the media? Are you supposed to have 2.4 children by now living
in the suburbs? Are you supposed to have made it to a certain level
of income? Similar to the above reason for goal failure, but different
in that you probably don't realize how much you are run by the voices,
stories and expectations of others. Get these people and their voices
to quiet down and evict them from the center of your head. That's
precious real estate. Own your own thoughts and distinguish when
you start hearing conversations that aren't yours.
Reason Number 3: You don't have a compelling enough reason or vision
pulling your forward.
Often because of the previous two reasons you don't feel on fire
about your desires, goals and dreams. It's no surprise that these
don't hold the spark for you. Get specific about a goal, intention
or dream that lights you up. You don't need to share your goals
with anyone who won't support you 100%. They may throw cold water
on your passions. Rather set that concrete goal and then imagine
what it's like to have that dream fulfilled. Forget about the "how"
for now. When you practice your vision by stoking up your imagination
of what it's like to already have it, you'll be sending signals
to Universe which will match back your vibration and give you the
next logical step of inspired action leading to the fulfillment
of that goal or intention.
Reason Number 4: You don't practice the feeling of the goal realized.
You've set a goal, intention, objective or dream and you've just
set it on your 'To-Do' list in some form of action steps that seem
to be a logical way to achieve your goal. And because you haven't
practiced finding that all important FEELING place of what it's
like to have your goal actualized, you lose your vision. Remember
the Old Testament scripture "Without a vision the people perish?"
Well, it's the same thing. You must keep your intentions, dreams
and goals ALIVE with feeling what it's like to already have it.
Ask yourself: Who would I be BEING if I already had these dreams,
goals or intentions fulfilled? Notice the emphasis on BEING? It's
of utter importance that you find the being place/feeling place.
This creates pulling power. Your thoughts are electric, your feelings
and emotions are MAGNETIC. You want pulling power. Something that
compels you forward and magnetizes the fulfillment of your goals
to you.
Reason Number 5: You have no accountability or structure to support
you in place.
Most of us are too concerned about looking good, avoiding failure
or are just plain too lazy to practice the structure of accountability.
And really that's just because we haven't found the right combination
to experience success. Get yourself a buddy, mastermind group, mentor,
or coach. When you co-create with another, momentum really starts
to build. Ask each other to talk about the WHYs. Why do you want
that outcome? Why do you want that dream? Asking "WHY"
helps to clarify your intentions and helps you determine if you're
in a moving toward energy or an avoiding energy. For example, you
want to bring in more money in your home based business. Your mastermind
group or coach asks you "Why do you want it?" Your response
is "because I like having the freedom of my own income and
I hate asking my husband for money" A-HA! That should be a
real tip off that you're in the avoiding energy mode. You are sending
the Universe very mixed signals here. Can you tell?
Go for inspired Action. Celebrate the wins -- big and small. And
install a daily practice of Gratitude! Make your daily list of 10
gratitudes - every day.
When you create inspired visions, intentions, and goals this way,
you'll always win. Soon you'll resolve to stop making New Year's
Resolutions because you won't need to!
Create an awesome 2010.
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Law of Attraction Life Coach, Nanette Geiger, is the author
of the bestselling book, "Create the Love of Your Dreams: the
Essential How-To Relationship Book using the Law of Attraction."
She is also the creator of the highly acclaimed "Magnetic Attraction
Training Program" and "Love & the Law of Attraction"
series. Nanette is a dedicated practitioner of the principles of
the Law of Attraction for over ten years, and a transformative
educator, coach and speaker.
Get your f*ree Video on "The #1 Secret to Finding and Keeping
the Love of Your Dreams" here ...
http://tinyurl.com/lq43cr
As the founder of Self-MasteryCoaching, Nanette teaches
how to gain personal mastery through transformational technologies
and the Law of Attraction. Nanette helps people breakthrough their
limitations to freedom in all areas of life, including relationships,
health and well-being, money, wealth and career. You can find out
lots more about Nanette and all she offers at http://www.NanetteGeiger.com
Nanette is also offering a f^ree teleseminar tomorrow, Thursday,
January 21st at 7:00 p.m EST. It's called "How to Get the Law
of
Attraction Working FOR You - Finally" You can sign up here:
http://tinyurl.com/yajl2st
THE LAW OF ATTRACTION IN ACTION: Step-By-Step.*
It's a step-by-step action plan so you can get the Law of
Attraction working for you. This teleseminar will be
recorded, and the replay link will be available in
a couple of days. But you must sign up to get the
replay.
Make sure you check it out!
http://tinyurl.com/yajl2st
Thanks for reading this issue of Magnetic News.
I hope you enjoyed it.
Till next week…….
Create and enjoy life!
Take care,
Barb
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