Magnetic News

This week we have an article by Kate Corbin. Valentines
Day is right around the corner - perfect timing for Kate's
article.

What's Self-Love Got To Do With It?
"If we really love ourselves, everything in our life works.” – Louise Hay

It’s called Self-Love, Self-Confidence, Self-Acceptance, Self-Respect, Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, etc. No matter what you call it, it’s a high vibration and it feels fantastic. The opposite - doubting yourself, disliking yourself, feeling ashamed, believing you're not good enough – is low on the vibrational scale and it feels awful.

As a Law of Attraction Life Coach, I find that one of the major issues for my clients is Self-Love. Oh, they may contact me for other reasons. They might want to lose weight or have more money or enjoy more fulfilling relationships, but the underlying issue often turns out to be a lack of Self-Love. When you love yourself, it's easy to improve relationships because you're capable of giving love and you can allow others to love you. When you love yourself, you quit using food to stuff down the pain of low self-esteem and it becomes easy to manage your weight. When you love yourself, your vibration is high and you naturally attract money and everything else you desire.

You were born loving yourself and knowing your value. Due to pressure from parents, teachers and peers, you may have tried to gain love and acceptance by becoming who THEY wanted you to be. When you do this, you generally end up not loving yourself. When you don’t love yourself, you may reach the absurd conclusion that you're not good enough. Then you spend your entire life trying to prove your worth and trying to get others to love you. Meanwhile YOU - the perfect extension of Source Energy YOU - have been hiding your magnificence and feeling worthless. Aaah!

There is simply no replacement for Self-Love. If you don't love yourself, you will be continually disappointed in life. You won't even see opportunities right in front of you. Your relationships will be strained. Even if someone else really does love you, you won't be able to feel it. You can only allow someone else to love you to the extent that you love yourself. And it is equally true that you can only love and accept another person to the extent that you love and accept yourself.

Everyone and everything in your environment is a reflection of your Self-Love or lack of it. The good news is that, because everything comes from YOU, you don't have to try to "FIX" the outside world. Everything changes when you "FIX" your inside world and the best place to start is by choosing to love yourself more. When you choose Self-Love, your health improves, you have more energy and vitality, your relationships become more joyful, you enjoy greater prosperity, and fabulous opportunities show up for you everywhere you look. When you love yourself, you become irresistibly attractive to others.

So how can you choose to love and accept yourself more? Start by treating yourself like the very special person you are. Start by doing nice things for yourself, such as:

Give yourself a pure pleasure day – enjoy a massage, facial, pedicure, whatever makes you feel nourished and pampered.

Buy yourself a special gift or take that dream vacation - just because you're YOU!

When someone gives you a compliment, believe it! Keep a list of compliments received as evidence of how wonderful you are and refer to it when you need a reminder.

Look in the bathroom mirror each morning and say to yourself: "I LOVE YOU. You are absolutely and eternally wonderful and worthy of all good things." In fact, if you affirm this statement with feeling every time you look in a mirror, your life will improve immeasurably!

Finally, make a declaration: "I hereby release my limiting belief of not being good enough and replace it with the joy of unconditional Self-Love."

In accordance with the Law of Attraction, you can only attract that which you are a vibrational match to. Self-Love raises your vibration and connects you with Source. Self-Love allows Well-Being of all kinds. The more you love yourself, the more you become a vibrational match to blissfully happy relationships with others. So, if you’re ready for that special someone to come into your life, the best thing you can do is amp up your Self-Love vibe. Likewise, if you already have the relationship and want to improve it, the best thing you can do is love and accept yourself more.

When you broadcast the high vibration of Self-Love, when you treat yourself well, when you know you're worthy and deserving, it’s amazing how quickly your desires will manifest. Give it a try. Let this Valentine’s Day be about Self-Love. As you bask in the deliciousness of Self-Love, you will find that you truly CAN Be and Do and Have Whatever You Desire!

Thanks for reading this issue of Magnetic News .
I'll be back next week. Create and enjoy life!

p.s. (Not so) New book out called "Visualize and Attract."
Read about it here (third one down):
Visualize and Attract

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