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This week in Magnetic News, we have an article by
Jack Canfield called "Good Things Come to Those Who Ask."
Ready to rock?
Let's go...........
Good Things Come to Those Who Ask
Asking for what you need is probably the most underutilized
tool for people. And yet, amazing requests have been granted
to people simply because they've asked for it!
Whether its money, information, support, assistance, or time, most
people are afraid to ask for what they need in order to make their
dreams come true.
They might be afraid of looking needy, ignorant, helpless, or even
greedy. More than likely, though, it is the fear of rejection that
is holding them back. Even though they are afraid to hear the word
no, they're already saying it to themselves by not asking!
Do you ask for what you want or are you afraid of rejection?
Consider this: Rejection is just a concept. There is
really no such thing as rejection! You're not any worse off by hearing
no than you were before you asked. You didn't have what you asked
for before you asked and you still don't, so what did you lose?
Being rejected doesn't hold you back from anything. Only YOU hold
yourself back. When you realize that there's no merit to rejection,
you'll feel more comfortable asking for things. You may just need
a bit of help learning how to ask for what you want.
How to Ask for What You Want
There’s a specific science to asking for and getting what
you want or need in life. And while I recommend you learn more by
studying The Aladdin Factor, here are some quick tips to get you
started:
1. Ask as if you expect to get it. Ask with a positive expectation.
Ask from the place that you have already been given it. It is a
done deal. Ask as if you expect to get a “yes.”
2. Assume you can. Don’t start with the assumption
that you can’t get it. If you are going to assume, assume
you can get an upgrade. Assume you can get a table by the window.
Assume that you can return it without a sales slip. Assume that
you can get a scholarship, that you can get a raise, that you can
get tickets at this late date. Don’t ever assume against yourself.
3. Ask someone who can give it to you. Qualify the person.
Who would I have to speak to get... Who is authorized to make a
decision about... What would have to happen for me to get...
4. Be clear and specific. In my seminars, I often ask, “Who
wants more money in their life?” I’ll pick someone who
raised their hand and give them a quarter, asking, “Is that
enough for you?” “No? Well, how would I know how much
you want? How would anybody know?”
You need to ask for a specific number. Too many people are walking
around wanting more of something, but not being specific enough
to obtain it.
5. Ask repeatedly. One of the most important Success Principles
is the commitment to not give up.
Whenever we’re asking others to participate in the fulfillment
of our goals, some people are going to say “no.” They
may have other priorities, commitments and reasons not to participate.
It’s no reflection on you.
Just get used to the idea that there’s going to be a lot of
rejection along the way to the brass ring. The key is to not give
up. When someone says “No”— you say “NEXT!”
Why?
Because when you keep on asking, even the same person again and
again...they might say “yes”...
…on a different day
…when they are in a better mood
…when you have new data to present
…after you’ve proven your commitment to them
…when circumstances have changed
…when you’ve learned how to close better
…when you’ve established better rapport
…when they trust you more
…when you have paid your dues
…when the economy is better
…and so on.
Kids know this Success Principle better than anyone. They will ask
the same person over and over again without any hesitation. (can
you relate?)
Getting a good perspective on rejection and learning how to ask
will make a world of difference for you as you work toward your
goals. Practice asking and you'll get very good at it! You'll even
speed your progress by getting what you need, or improving yourself
in order to get it later.
Make a list of what you need to ask for in all areas of your life,
and start asking.
Remember, ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE… if you dare to ask!
Jack Canfield, America's #1 Success Coach, is founder of the billion-dollar
book brand Chicken Soup for the Soul© and a leading
authority on Peak Performance and Life Success. If you're ready
to jump-start your life, make more money, and have more fun and
joy in all that you do, get your FREE success tips from Jack Canfield
now at: www.FreeSuccessStrategies.com
Thanks for reading this issue of Magnetic News.
I hope you enjoyed it.
Worth checking out - Bob Doyle, one of the teachers in The Secret
has a brand
new program out. Find out more here: http://tinyurl.com/38gnj94
Did you check out Daily
Energize yet?
Till next week…….
Create and enjoy your life!
Take care,
Barb
p.s. Have you checked out this e-book on
manifesting your desires?
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- LOA blog
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