Law of Attraction – Six Ways You Stop the Positive Flow

The Law of Attraction is based on the flow and attraction of the positive energy in the Universe. We hear lots of authors talk about that fact that positive energy attracts more positive energy and that negative energy attracts more negative energy. But how do you attract negative energy – besides not generating positive energy yourself that is? Here are some specific barriers that you can get caught in which will stop your flow of positive energy and cause you to attract the negative. We can all get caught in most of these and probably have from time to time. They are relatively easy to fall into but we can get out of them if we are aware that we have become stuck in them.

  1. Fear. When we allow fear to paralyze us it takes over and we are caught up in negative energy. We need to recognize the debilitating aspects of fear and we need to face and overcome our fears. When we can get to the point of understanding that fear is only an idea in our heads we realize that it really has no power over us. The first step is to name our fear and then we can begin to work through it by facing it directly and proving to ourselves that it is not powerful and cannot harm us. When we can do this, we claim our positive energy back and begin to attract positive energy around our positive self-esteem.
  2. Goals. When we have not set goals we stagnate or spin our wheels not knowing where to go or what to do. This creates a great deal of negative energy around our purpose in life and our ability to accomplish things. By identifying our values and beliefs and then aligning them with our goals we are able to move forward with great positive energy and enthusiasm. This energy not only empowers us to do more but it also attracts more positive energy from the Universe.
  3. Focus. With all that goes on in our lives it is very easy to loose focus on our goals and the positive things that we want to accomplish. In order to attract the life we want we must stay focused on it. A great way to do that is to make what we want visual whether that is through photos, collages or any other kinds of pictures. By keeping them where we can see them often they become a reminder to stay focused. Remember, focusing on what we want tells our subconscious our desires and it works with our conscious self to manifest what we want in life.
  4. Acceptance. Many of us have not learned to accept what the Universe offers. If it is not exactly like what we have imagined we think it is not what we asked for. That may not be true. They Universe will offer what we need. We need to be open and be aware. What we are given will be far better than what we requested.
  5. Lifestyle. The choices we make about our lifestyle can quickly get in the way of the flow of positive energy. When we choose the negative things in life they take our focus off of what is good for us and what we have said we really want. The worst culprits are drugs, alcohol and anything we can become addicted to. Remember that they begin as choices. We also have the choice to get help to stop them. We can restore our positive energy by getting the assistance we need to live free of addiction.
  6. Holding on. When we have past grievances that we hold on to we are generating negative energy and blocking your access to the positive.We need to learn to let go. We can choose to take the high road and remember that things in the past can only hurt us if we let them. It is our choice – it is our choice to hang on and experience the negative emotions generated by those situations or to let go and move into freedom and the positive energy that brings.

Hopefully you recognize where you are caught and can do the things necessary to get free and claim your positive energy. If you are having difficulty get a good coach to help you out. A well-trained coach can keep you focused and help you work through your stuckness so that you can regain your life again quickly and apply the Law of Attraction in you and all it has to give you.

Lynn Banis PhD, MCC is known as America’s High Performance Coach. Lynn specializes in helping women in leadership positions or wanting to be in leadership positions make the most of their opportunities and potential. She enjoys helping executives and entrepreneurs create their ultimate impact. Her years of working with small and large businesses has given her a depth of knowledge that is invaluable to her clients both as a business and a life coach. Lynn is the author of two books “The Discovery Journal” and “Discovery Points: A Coaching Guide to Getting Unstuck.” Both can be obtained under Lynn’s name at You can reach her at Also check out Lynn’s other businesses: Coach Academy Texas, a cutting edge coach training company; and Turnkey Coaching Solutions, a coaching program management and contract coach staffing company.

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